Meditating on the Will of God: 18: Things Beyond Choice?
Phil 2:12,13 “continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose”
In an earlier meditation we wrote, “Of course there are some things we can choose and others that are beyond our choice and we will examine this in the days to come, as well.” Our ability to choose is closely tied to the subject of God’s will because, as we have noted a number of times, there is every appearance in both scripture and life that we have free will and the ability to choose which path to take, God’s will or not!
As an aside, let’s just consider that yet again because it is so important. There are different levels of choice. There is the simple, ordinary choosing between things or people – who to invite to a party today – “Now then, choose twelve men from the tribes of Israel, one from each tribe.” (Josh 3:12). No big issue there. But then there is choosing moral or spiritual paths and they may have deep and lasting consequences, for example, “Now fear the LORD and serve him with all faithfulness. Throw away the gods your forefathers worshiped beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the LORD. But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your forefathers served beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” (Josh 24:14,15) That was a matter of serious choice with serious consequences.
Now, to reiterate the point we have made a number of times before, unless these verses are pure gobbledygook, then they have to speak of real abilities to freely choose between different options and those options bring different consequences, and the Bible is full of such instances – of choices and consequences.
But what are the things that influence the way we make our choices? Are we always free to make whatever choices we like. Obviously there are restrictions. A five year old cannot go to university. Most of us cannot jump the heights of great athletes or run as fast. We cannot play wonderful music like great musicians or sing like opera singers because we are limited physically, we are the people we are. Yes, there are very obvious things that limit us as human beings. We cannot be in two places at once. We cannot read people’s minds (well most of us can’t). Some of us are not good at maths, others are poor with languages. We have limited financial resources and so money limits what we can do sometimes. There are, in fact so many things that limit us.
So what ARE the main things that influence us. Well genetic makeup appears to have a strong influence on us but contrary to opinion often espoused in the media when a new gene is found, we are NOT bound by the things we’ve inherited from our parents. We ARE strongly disposed to act in certain manners like them but we do not have to be bound by those things; we can choose not to be.
Some things children learn from their parents such as manipulative anger, but this has taken us into the ‘nurture’ part of the ‘nature versus nurture’ discussion and without doubt many of us make choices on the basis of what we have learned as our parents have brought us up.
And then we became Christians and found that God has designed life in a certain way whereby we work best as human beings. We might not have seen it like that initially, just that we had a Bible full of “do this” and “don’t do that” things and we slowly began to realise that there was a way of life that was different from the way we had lived it so far – and this was the will of God, what He wanted for us.
And from the moment we realised that, we had a new set of choices to make, but they really all come under the umbrella of ‘surrender to God’. If we truly surrendered our lives to God when we came to Christ, then every else is easy – or relatively easy. The first decision has been made – to go God’s way. From then on Paul’s injunction to “work out your salvation” was about learning what God’s will was for every aspect of life and then living it.
But that is where we realise it was not so easy. We had existing relationships and we need God’s wisdom to know how to handle them in the light of His will. We find we have prevailing attitudes and habits, things we have learned, accepted and developed over the years and, to our horror, guilt and shame, we find they are contrary to God’s will and we struggle to overcome them. It is at that point we find the apostle Paul’s instructions to “put them to death” relevant. At that point his teaching about being alive to God becomes relevant. We need the help and power of His Holy Spirit to change, to come in line with His will.
It IS a given in the Christian life that we are to conform to HIS will and that means often overriding our will. I would like to get back at an enemy, but Jesus says pray for them and love them, and there are many such instances of our wills clashing with His. Transformation, or sanctification, is all about our lives changing to conform to His will and as we enter into that process so we face up to the things we have inherited, or the things we have learned along the way and we have to challenge them to see if they fit with His will, and if they don’t then they will have to go. For, as we have seen previously, His will is good and pleasant and perfect and that is why He wants us to conform to it, so that we may be blessed by Him.