16. Growing in Sonship

The Wonder of the Church:  Part 3 – Making of Believers

16. Growing in Sonship

Gal 4:6,7  Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, “Abba, Father.” So you are no longer a slave, but God’s child; and since you are his child, God has made you also an heir.

Heb 12:7,8  God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all.

Eph 1:5  he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ

Rom 8:15 the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” (also 8:23)

Heirs:  In the previous study we considered the fact that the New Testament speaks of Christians, believers in Jesus Christ, as children of God.  Now there is another facet of this relationship issue and it is that of growing up and entering into what God has in store for is, referred to as our inheritance (see Eph 1:14,18, 5:5, Col 1:12, 3:24, Heb 9:15, 1 Pet 1:4) because as ‘sons’ we are also heirs (Gal 4:7 above). But that ‘inheritance’ appears to have two dimensions, first the life we have to live here on the earth, and then, second, the life we have in eternity with God.

The Life Today: If the problem we considered in the previous study was one of alienation, the one we face now is the problem of life purpose and meaning and possibilities of fulfillment.  Now you only have to look on the self-help shelves of any good bookshop and you will see that there are many means suggested of being fulfilled as a human being, but they are all focused on ‘doing’, but there is no motivation or reason d’etre beyond simply to feel good in yourself. It is a purely self-centred thing. However, when we come across this teaching in the New Testament we find it is focused in ‘being’ and about ‘identity’ and then out of that comes the ‘doing’. We ‘do’ because of who we are.

Sonship: That is where we come back to this concept. Without in any way being sexist, if we can observe life two thousand years ago in Israel, we  will see something very significant. Because of the way we are made, when girls grew up it was expected of them that they would get married, have children and put all their effort into raising a family. (Anyone who has witnessed the phenomenon of a Jewish mother will know that this is not a passive, subservient role but a powerful and strong role!) The role of the man was thus left to be the breadwinner. He either had a trade or business or worked for others. If he had a trade or business that trade or business would be the path that the son followed. Thus Jesus was a carpenter (Mk 6:3) because Joseph was a carpenter (Mt 13:55). The son would be trained up by the father and enter more and more into the business and eventually take it over when his father died. When ‘sonship’ is brought into the New Testament, we see that the picture is of one who enters into the father’s business and eventually inherits the father’s business.

Father’s Business? Now if we are implying that this is now a picture of what happens with us and God, the question has to arise, what is the Father’s business? Rather than making a long discussion out of this I will simply suggest that since the Fall (which the Godhead knew would occur) God’s ‘work’ ever since – at least in respect of this earth – has been a long-term project of restoring relationship with mankind, and thus restoring the life God originally designed for us in its many facets. So if we take this Old Testament picture of ‘sonship’ and bring it into the ambit of New Testament salvation we can suggest that the Father’s plan for us is to a) draw is into an ever-deepening relationship with Him, so that b) He can lead us into a place where we receive all of the goodness He has on His heart for us.

Crisis and Gradual Change: Of course we enter into this life by a crisis that we have referred to in shorthand as conviction plus repentance, which happens at a specific moment in time. Once that happens there is life to be lived out, a life in relationship with God, made possible through the finished work of Christ on the Cross but now enabled by the indwelling Holy Spirit.  Now we come to looking at what it means to have an ever-deepening relationship with the Father. It comes from first of all taking in what the New Testament says about our new life and this we find by reading and praying and seeking understanding and application (obedience) of what we find there. Sometimes there will direct commands to follow, for example Jesus said to his disciples and therefore to us, “Love one another as I have loved you.” (Jn 13:34) and we therefore have to see how we can do that in respect of other Christians. Another example would be, “clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience,” (Col 3:12) and so we will consider how we can ‘put on’ those things as we relate to others. The new life involves us working out (with His help as we pray) these things we come across.

But then we come to learn, as we’ve read, that the Holy Spirit indwells us, and so what will happen is simply that we will get a sense that ‘this is what I should be doing’. For instance, as we’ve used this as an example before, I get a feeling I ought to ring up an old friend, and when I do they say, “Oh I was just thinking about you. I need help in….” and we find life becomes more than coincidences, it becomes ‘guided’ and so learning to be sensitive to the prompting of the Spirit becomes a very real learning process in this new life.

Increasing Understanding: But this new relational life we have been talking about, when we see it in the ‘father and son’ terms we considered earlier, we find is also a life where we are learning to understand how the Father works and, consequently, how He wants us to work in harmony with Him. But it is a life of learning, of growing and maturing, and of testing and training, and changing us (of course when we refuse to be changed, it stops!).  In other words we start learning the strategies of God, how He works. Possibly contrary to our previous beliefs, we come to learn and realise that He loves us, is for us, and is always working for our best. (There are so many verses I will not use quotes to make the point). We will learn that although sometimes we seem to lose a sense of His presence, He never leaves us. We learn that although we are sometimes in a hurry for change, He is never in a rush and takes His time. And so it will go on, a lifetime of learning!

But there will also be things that we are slow to learn because they come more with the knowledge of Him rather than just by learning some rules. Knowing Him is more important than knowing the rules, for the more we seek Him, read His word, pray, and are obedient to His promptings, the more we will learn to sense His presence and that will change us more than anything else. Within that relationship we will learn how important His word, the Bible, is to us.  Within that relationship we will learn how important prayer is to us, or worship is to us. Initially they will be simply things we do because other Christians seem to do them, but as we grow in maturity and in understanding and in our knowledge of His presence, the more these things will become essential realities for us which we cannot do without. So, is this the Christianity we know – you know?  If not, may it become so.

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