Aspiring Meditations: 25. Aspiring to Maturity
Heb 6:1 let us leave the elementary teachings about Christ and go on to maturity
Col 4:12 He is always wrestling in prayer for you, that you may stand firm in all the will of God, mature and fully assured.
I have come to the end of various ‘lists’ of things that the scriptures speak of, things to which we need to aspire, but I find there are one or two other words lurking in the back of my mind that we need to consider before we finish this particular series. The first of these words is ‘mature’ or ‘maturity’. Maturity only comes up once and mature not a lot of times, but they are there and they are significant in this search.
To speak about maturity means something or someone that is, ‘fully grown, fully developed, having reached initial potential.’ It is a state of being and it is something, I have observed over the years, that does not happen automatically; it does need our cooperation. Surprisingly the words crops us (sorry for the pun) in the parable of the sower: “The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature. But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop.” (Lk 8:14,15)
Now that is interesting on two levels. First, it shows us that a person can fail to go on to spiritual maturity if they let worries and concerns about living in this materialistic world dominate their lives. When the apostle Paul starts off virtually every one of his letter with something like, “Grace and peace to you” you can be pretty sure that a) we need grace to cope with life and b) the end result of having grace is a state of peace. Maturity involves learning to receive God’s grace and living in a state of peace.
Second, it shows that whereas that person does not mature, the person who does is revealed by the fruit that he or she bring forth in their life. i.e. their life will change and their life will impact this world. How have you and I changed? Are the fruit of the Spirit developing in us? How have we or do we impact the world? Are other people, or the world generally, changed because of us. Signs of maturity!
But then maturity is the end goal of the gifts of ministries to the church that the apostle Paul speaks about in that famous Eph 4 passage. He says their works is, “to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.” (Eph 4:12,13) Now note that the end result is that ‘the body of Christ’ is brought to unity, “as each part does its work.” (v.16) The role of those ministries is to encourage each of us to become the person God has designed us to be (see Eph 2:10) and when that happens we will work in harmony with and in conjunction with the rest of the body.
But that is the corporate expression of maturity. What other signs are there for us individually? Well, the writer to the Hebrews said, “solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil” (Heb 5:14) and there he was referring to us moving beyond the basics of the faith in our understanding. I despair of those house groups who constantly do Bible Studies of the most elementary things of the scriptures, the easy parts if you like. I prefer the approach that says, “OK what are the things about the faith over which you have questions, or which parts of the Bible do you find the hardest? Right, let’s start there!” The more we study God’s word (all of it!) and the more we study the elements of the Faith, the more we will find ourselves being trained as the writer said, “to distinguish good from evil.”
We might add here, that the mature person doesn’t read the word, they put it into operation. That was the point of Jesus’ parable of the two house builders in Matt 7, and the point of the ‘Great Commission’: “go and make disciples from all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” (Mt 28:19,20) That is maturity – doing it.
While on the subject of teaching, after his teaching about maturity coming from the work of the ministry gifts, he explains, “Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming.” (Eph 4:14) A sign of maturity is that we don’t get carried away by false teaching or false teachers; we are no longer ‘infants’.
Stick-ability is thus a characteristic of the mature and we see this is two other teachings: “Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” (Jas 1:4) and “But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.” (Jas 1:6) The mature person learns to hang on in there and not give up. Some people are good starters but are not good on following through. That is a sign of immaturity. The mature person is also mature in their relationship with the Lord and therefore has an assurance in Him that does not doubt when we come asking Him for things (wisdom in this case). We know the Lord, we know His goodness, we know His heart towards us, we know His will.
Are we there with these things? If not, then we still have something to which we are yet to aspire – maturity. If we are not there with these things, keep working to grow and get there. Will we ever fully get there? Almost certainly not (and having the occasional bad day is not a sign of immaturity, merely that we are still human beings!) but we can work on these things and we can see changes and so, yes, we can grow. Perhaps we should aspire to growing in these things rather than achieving some slightly intangible end goal. May it be so.
Addendum: if you want a motivation to grow, find yourself something to DO that places demands on you. Those demands will drive you to the Lord where you will have to receive from Him more grace and the rest will follow. More in the next study.